BETTER LEFT UNSAID: Honey You Doing Too Much!

As I begin to grow older, becoming a better woman, I respect and love women so much. They do a hella lot! As mothers, as workers, as wives, as girlfriends, as friends, as everything. I respect that and I know they do things from the heart. I know I do.

But......

Because women have so much heart, so much care for others, especially their men, it really frustrates me when i hear stories about EVERYTHING that they do for their "lovers." Like i just said, I respect that. I think it is great that women do what they can to help their significant other. But when that man do not respect that! Then why continue? Why do everything in your power for a person who isnt doing the same or even trying? Who doesn't appreciate at?

3 Stories-3 women i know

I worked with this one chick for a couple weeks and every time I worked with her, she just kept telling me about her boyfriend about how she working two jobs, she dont have off days because she is paying for all of her bills, and all of his bills, he doesnt have a job, and she taking care of her child and his children (whom are not her kids) and im just like wow...im down for taking care of your man when he in a bad position in his life, but the things she used to tell me of what he done to her, said to her, its like no woman deserves that, Its a time to think about others then there are times where you should think about yourself, this is that time, honey you doing too much!

Ive been friends with this other chick for some time, and over a course of 2 years she has been through hell and back and back to hell again with her "lover" and once again im down for supporting your man when times get tough when that man is doing all he can to get back on his feet, he letting you know every single day and minute that he appreciate everything that he doing for u, not just telling you but showing u. ACTION ACTION ACTION! But when a man begins to take your kindness for granted, then that aint right! Honey, you doing too much!

This woman has also been through a lot has four kids, and once again bringing in the dough, basically supporting a no-good man, working all day only to come to no food on the table from your man who is staying in your place eating your food watching your tv, using your electricity, using your car, and what is he doing? If he is in that type of position he need to be doing something! Honey you WAS doing too much! but guess what? Now she is living so much better with her children without him. Im happy for her and proud of her. Because that aint easy and for that I have respect!

Women do soooooooo much, and I feel like men should acknowledge that, respect that, and want to do better for women! And also, for those women who have a lack of confidence ...I wish theywill gain even more strength to realize what is best for themselves and rise above. This saying is said a lot, but its true...."YOU CAN DO BAD ALL BY YOURSELF"

*Stay (I)nspired

Ps. Got damn it we give birth! smh....