I've come to the conclusion that......guys don't know WHAT THE FUCK THEY WANT....until they see it. Seriously.
Let me explain.
I hear and see guys say all the time, I can't date a bald chick, I don't like a chick etc etc etc right? But ask any of them if Amber Rose gave them the time a day would they hit? 95% of them would say HELL YEAH.
Furthermore talk a gander at this video
Notice how he doesn't really answer the question? Note how misinformed and misguided he is. Notice that he keeps asking the audience to answer the question but........he's indecisive. Because it's on a girl to girl basis.
I haven't been taking the time to really learn how to style my natural hair and......well I get a lot of slack for that. People have their comments because I run around with an untamed fro but I could give a fuck less because I'm on my academic grind and I have no one to look cute for. But there's this guy I'm talking to and he.....well..........he HATES MY HAIR this way. Sigh. I've explained to him that I don't straighten my hair mostly because it's easier not to. I can work out. I don't have to worry about the rain. I don't have to really wrap my hair and lay still enough for the cap not to come off. But also because I'm more comfortable with a fuller head of hair. He says he hates the puffiness. Ol well he'll get used to it. I'm lovable lol
Essentially what I'm trying to say is, you don't have to fit the status quo, or go along with what everyone THINKS is the way to attract a mate...because they will come....at least the ones who see beyond ur surface beauty -which are the ones that count
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