ELLE: If you walked into a woman’s house, what one item would convince you that you weren’t compatible?
W: If she had condoms in her house, that would just fuckin’ throw me off. That’s just tacky.
ELLE: Well, okay, I could see if she had a candy bowl full of them on the coffee table. But if she’s got a few in a drawer, wouldn’t that simply suggest she’s health-conscious?
W: I just think, like, if you’re into someone and you guys get to that level, then that’s something you should converse about together and say, “Hey, maybe we should get some.
Sister Toldja had an extensive response (Read Here) but this just about sums up my feelings about the situation
Keeping condoms in the house is not the signature behavior of a slut; it is a responsible action taken by a sexually active person. Whether you are in a monogamous relationship, sleeping around all over town or simply open to the possibility of having sex at some point, it’s good to be prepared. Men have been known to keep condoms not simply in their homes, but in their cars and wallets. This isn’t about suggesting that the onus of providing protection should be on the part of the man (or that a couple should purchase all prophylactics together); this is basically saying that women should not be able to make the decision to have sex as casually as men can. And that’s nonsense. -Sister Toldja
...Assumptions are so tempting to make.
If the sister is giving it up then and there....then ok perhaps you are validated in your opinion she is a "hoe" but if she simply invites you in the space with no innuendo or intention of sex...what you worried for? Get to know her and maybe you'll find that she rather be protected than sorry and I'll take that before "hoe with no regrets" anyday.
PROTECT YOURSELF!!!!
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