no seriously, why is it that when I youtube search for plan B videos.........they don't come up in the search? I'm signed in, they know I'm over 18...but here's the quirkier part; They have a video named sexy lingerie, I youtube search that and here are all these videos with scantily clothed women...but no PLAN B. The problem with America is that we insist on sex being a taboo subject...the dirty little secret we can't get enough of. We pretend that it doesn't exist...like it's helping us uphold some sort of moral code
Folks have sex!!!!
I found the video on another youtuber's channel. Not from Plan B's channel -____-
I posted this video not because I advocated using emergency contraception as regular birth control but because too many women don't use regular birth control. I posted this video because I was watching Maury yesterday and of course it was paternity tests....
It reminded me of this quote I saw that went something like, Women mess up having babies by men that they want and not by men who want to be fathers. Intially I was like what the fuck, why wouldn't I want to hve a child by a man of my choosing...then I had to think if I have to loan my body for 9 almost 10 months...go through hours of labor....and then pay for this child amongst all these tax raises and the cost of education soaring through the roof, and amongst the insanity of our society...I DON'T WANNA DO THAT ALONE. I definitely don't want to have to chase a man to be a father to my child.
I don't think enough women consider that. I think the thought process is more like he loves me therefore he will love our child ---------------men love situations they know they can escape. I think the thought process is more like....he don't want kids now but once he sees our child that will change ---------there are way too many boys that neglect and run away from their responsibility. They don't think that child needs them....OR they see it as being trapped to the child's mother. But this isn't about men.
This is about women...now. We have to be choosier these days even more so than before because it is way too easy for men to negate their responsibility...It's too easy for them to call us a bitch and a hoe and a slut and chalk that up to why they don't need to be there for the child. I think these young women need to seriously sat down........and told BABIES ARE NOT IN THE LEAST EASY TO TAKE CARE OF. While watching Maury today I seriously thought of advocating forced birth control until at least ol girl is married or 21. No one needs kids that young! and these young kids don't know what to do with being fertile. Ok.....you're having sex....doesn't mean you ought to procreate. But forced birth control is taking away a human right.....and I'm anti no human rights.
It's sad that it has to come down to paternity testing. It's also sad that there are multiple cases where the child is NOT the father in question. Seriously how many guys are you banging at the same time unprotectedly that you don't know who the father is? I know I can be quite the liberal when it comes to sex but....I'm not down for that sort of promiscuity........mostly because it's often not the result of being sexually liberated....but more so because that individual in some way or another does not feel good about themselves.
it should never come down to this
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