I've been seeing more than a few cute white boys lately. Especially this one at work. He is SO cute. And once I thought to myself in gazing at his cuteness....I bet I could take it slow with him like....there wouldn't be any pressure to have sex....
DID I JUST HYPERSEXUALIZE MY OWN RACE???????????
Hold on. Wait. Hold the phone. Um? Let's think about this.
There is nothing in our culture/media that says white guys aren't sexaholics. EVERYTHING in culture says that.
So what led me to this conclusion? My theory is that.......perhaps in addition to him being an absolute sweetheart and him being white -with my blackness- I'd feel like I was more dominant and able to turn him down. OR I thought because I was black he'd be scared to ask. OR I thought he'd be more likely to approach me with the earnest interest of getting to know me.
It was probably the last one.
My experience with males back home -of which 98% are black...is that they approach me because they'd do me. Yup. Then they learn I'm a student...and a college student at that...and don't have no kids and like O...shorty must be wifey material...BUT....I'd still rather just do you for now. So I entertain them for the moment (I hope you know that I mean in conversation lol) with the thought in the back of my head .......yeah you just wanna do me. You can get off the bullshit now. It would be silly not to. Especially when most of them are taught, fuck now -ask later.
Not to mention rap lyrics hypersexualize black males -with everything drop this shake that I wanna fuck you-I wanna fuck every girl in the world. I just want you for sex u betta be gon in the morn, bitch this bitch that you ain't shit more than a fuck ................and that being most of what I listened to in my teenage years.......all I thought was...yeah...he just want to fuck. :/
But when I looked at this white boy.....I thought there's always the possibility for more.
....There aren't enough movies with black guys dropping everything to love.......and being romantic....and approaching women for more than sex
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